So day by day my blogs start to get boringer and boringer. So I try my best to blog about something important, something that's worth reading. So hopefully, as I blog today, something inspiring comes to mind and I can impact someone in some good way today :) Because i've come to realize how much I care about everyone around me. Not only the people I call my bestfriends, but even if i've just met you. Because everyone is alike in some way or another, some show it and some don't.
Just by talking to one person, i've learned something today. See, life brings new things to you each and every day. People just don't see it. Man, i'm always so "dgaf" about everything, but I finally realize that caring is what I do. I was talking to Shannon today and he tells me about something. And I tell him about my past experience and how I felt and how the other felt and it turns out that it's the same exact situation. Life repeats itself so much in every person and that's why some people need to stop being bitches and sympathize a little. I try not to judge because once you finally get to know someone and their background, you realize why they are the way they are. A few days ago, someone asks me if I know a person and they tell me she's a bitch. But coincidentally, the weekend before, I met that same girl through a friend and she talks about the drama that's happened in her life. So maybe that's why she's such a "bitch" to people. Because her best friend made out with the guy she had a thing with behind her back. And maybe now she's learned not to throw out her trust to just anyone anymore. Because this world is full of liars, fakes, cheaters, deceivers, hypocrites, backstabbers, bitches, sluts, and self-centered people, who knows who you can trust?
As for me, I was hurt so much by my ex cause every time we broke up, he'd hook up with a buncha girls. But hey, I grew stronger cause of that and now I don't take shit from anyone. But that's just why I am the way I am. That's why I was so dgaf about everything up until today, when Shannon helped me realize that I actually do care, and I actually like to. Some people might see me as a bitch or whatever, but it's not like I was born like that, experience has changed me in so many ways and only if you knew, you'd understand. Yeah, i've become bitchier, meaner, and alla that, but at the same time, i've never found myself in such a caring, mature, understanding era in my life. I've learned to look at BOTH sides and understand where people are coming from. I've learned that it's not always about who's right or who's wrong, it's about finding a place IN BETWEEN where you can both meet. So, stop judging. Whatever you're saying about people is probably being said about you. And people always go, "You don't know me." But are you just being a hypocrite when you say that? Cause everyone has it in them, but you just have be the judge of what to believe and what not to believe and maybe try to understand people. But what can we do? It's life .. and some people never learn.
Thanks, Shannon. Today's blog was inspired by you and you were the daymaker! G'dnight everyone!
And I could go on and on about how much I love my girls ..but that's for another day :)
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